She won’t directly say, “Get me a sari .” Often when they need a sari , they do not say they need a sari ; they say, “ Janu (beloved), you do not love me!” And janu understands: she needs a sari .

Similarly, janu does not need to say that he need sex; all that janu has to say is, “I want to love you,” and she understands what he wants. If he says, “I want to love you” he means: undress.

Most of us are not seekers of love. We are chasers of lovers. There is a great difference between that—wanting love and wanting a lover. Please meditate on that.

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